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There's also truth in the saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. While the most universal measure of attractiveness is a symmetrical face, there are lots of other factors at play.
In 2011, Ok Cupid that shows that women's attractiveness rankings are often split, with women who get "1" and "2" attractiveness ratings (on a five-point scale) also receiving a high number of "5" ratings. From your mood at the time to the color someone's wearing, "a lot of attractiveness is contextual and not set in stone," Lewandowski said. Take Addie, a 23-year-old from the San Francisco area.
"I usually ignored them, but there were times when hearing that repeatedly made me doubt my choice and feelings.
They're dating men who are seemingly less attractive than them. But while she asked it rhetorically, it begs a real answer.While students agreed on who was most attractive at the beginning of the semester, by the end of the semester, their opinions on who were most attractive differed greatly.Personality matters — and it eventually makes the attractiveness less powerful."I'm attracted to my partner's beautiful heart and mind," Indra, a 24-year-old from Indonesia, told .We don't like uncertainty, so anecdotally speaking we're harsh on the relationship because we don't understand it — even though it may be a beautiful love."We also judge it especially when the mismatch challenges gender norms.Plenty of TV shows and movies feature fat or slobby men with supermodel wives.
"The trial and error process of trying to obtain these partner[s] (i.e.