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If you have experienced or observed on other expat/bargirl couples some behaviours that could help other readers determine how sincere their relationship is, please feel free to share with us!
I listed 10 of them and I hope they will help you realize if yours is on the game or not: 1) You in Jakarta: To be honest, if it was a massage parlour, a club in Kota, a bar in Blok M, or a karaoke, there is a 99% chance she is a fake. Your only chance is that she was in such a place by accident, but that never really happens.This is not a normal relationship, stop listening to all her bullshit about love, and make an objective analysis of your relationship with her: Is this woman making you happy?What does she like about you exactly that other expats don't have? Jakarta is a decadent city: Male expats cheat on their wife and they end up with local Indonesian women who cheat on them too.However, if you are looking for a serious partner, then do not tolerate a relationship based on mistrust and lies.This is not an exhaustive list of all the signs that can exist showing your Indonesian girlfriend is cheating on you.
Normal girls don't lie because they don't have to and if you indo girlfriend is lying to you; it means that she is not behaving normally. Usually, she will say she has "problems at home", but don't take her word too seriously: Chances are she is angry because one of the expats she is dating stopped sending her money, or because she fought with her Indonesian guy.